Escort acronyms and adult-industry terms

A position where two adults provide oral stimulation to each other at the same time.

Also searched as: mutual oral

Always clarify: Confirm that both people mean simultaneous mutual oral contact and confirm barriers and boundaries.

A term sometimes used for anal intercourse.

Also searched as: A level, Greek

Always clarify: Confirm the exact activity, barrier use, lubricant, direction, and the provider's boundaries.

Cuddling, holding or resting closely together in a mutually comfortable way.

Also searched as: cuddling, snuggling

Always clarify: Confirm comfort, duration and areas of contact.

A relationship-style description for gentle or affectionate kissing; the exact style varies.

Also searched as: kissing, passionate kissing

Always clarify: Confirm whether kissing is light or open-mouth and respect oral-health boundaries.

Agreed emotional or practical support after an intense, intimate, or role-based activity.

Also searched as: post-scene care

Always clarify: Ask what support is expected, how long it takes, and whether the provider offers it.

A broad term covering external or internal anal stimulation; it does not identify direction or the exact activity.

Also searched as: anal play on me, anal play on you

Always clarify: Confirm who receives what, whether penetration is involved, barriers, lubricant, hygiene and firm boundaries.

Oral contact around the anus.

Also searched as: rimming, DATO

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barriers, hygiene, and the provider's boundaries.

Anal contact followed immediately by oral contact without cleaning or changing a barrier.

Also searched as: ass-to-mouth

Always clarify: This involves significant hygiene and infection risk; do not assume acceptance and check the provider's boundaries.

A broad category involving agreed restraint, rules, or discipline within negotiated limits.

Also searched as: B and D, bondage discipline, BDSM

Always clarify: Ask what specific activities, intensity, limits, safewords, and experience are intended.

A BDSM activity involving consensual impact or pressure to the testicles.

Also searched as: ball busting, genital impact

Always clarify: Carries injury risk; require precise methods, very clear intensity limits, health screening, safeword and immediate stop rules.

Oral sex on a penis without a condom.

Also searched as: bareback oral, OWO

Always clarify: Confirm barrier use, completion expectations, and the provider's boundaries.

Oral sex on a penis without a condom continuing until ejaculation.

Also searched as: BBBJ to completion

Always clarify: Confirm barrier use and fluid-contact expectations; understanding the term does not mean it is offered.

Vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom.

Also searched as: bareback, unprotected sex, UFS

Always clarify: This specifically means no condom; the provider's safer-sex rules and boundaries control.

A common body-description term for a larger or curvaceous woman.

Also searched as: curvy, plus size

Always clarify: Treat it as a body descriptor, not a service or permission for disrespectful language.

An umbrella term covering many consensual power-exchange, restraint, sensation, and role-based activities.

Also searched as: kink, power exchange

Always clarify: The term is very broad; require specific activities, limits, intensity, consent signals, and aftercare expectations.

A phrase sometimes used for two adult providers presented together. It does not reliably mean they are related or that any particular activity is included.

Also searched as: bi twins, double, two providers

Always clarify: Confirm the identity and number of adults, each person's consent, barriers, roles, price and whether a duo booking is genuinely available.

Oral sex performed on a penis.

Also searched as: oral, fellatio, French

Always clarify: Confirm condom use, whether completion is requested, and the provider's boundaries.

Oral sex performed on a penis until ejaculation, with barrier use depending on the provider's rules.

Also searched as: BJ to completion

Always clarify: Confirm barrier use and where ejaculation is expected; the provider's configured rules control.

Oral contact with the testicles.

Also searched as: testicle oral, TTM

Always clarify: Confirm hygiene, comfort, intensity, and the provider's boundaries.

Consensual restraint of a person's movement using agreed methods.

Also searched as: restraint, B&D

Always clarify: Confirm equipment, body areas, duration, circulation safety, release method, limits, and safeword.

An appointment accepted under the provider's stated confirmation rules.

Also searched as: appointment, confirmed visit

Always clarify: Confirm date, time, duration, location type, rate, arrival instructions, and confirmation status.

A consensual fetish activity focused on boots or footwear.

Also searched as: boot fetish

Always clarify: Confirm specific actions, cleaning, footwear availability, contact and boundaries.

In BDSM or sexual contexts, the person receiving an agreed action; this does not always mean submissive.

Also searched as: bottoming

Always clarify: Ask what activity is involved and do not assume that bottom, submissive, and receiver mean the same thing.

A clear limit about what a person will or will not do, and under what conditions.

Also searched as: limit, rule

Always clarify: A boundary is not negotiable unless the person who set it chooses to change it freely.

A negotiated role where a submissive person behaves cheekily or resists in agreed ways to invite a response.

Also searched as: bratty sub

Always clarify: Confirm the intended behaviour, permitted responses, forbidden actions, safeword, and limits.

A term whose meaning varies between advertisements and regions, and which should never be treated as a clear activity by itself.

Also searched as: Brazilian service

Always clarify: Ask for a plain-language description before discussing consent, price or boundaries.

A body-slide description whose exact clothing, products and contact can vary between providers and regions.

Also searched as: Brazilian body-to-body, Brazilian slide

Always clarify: Ask for the exact activity, clothing, products, contact areas, finish and boundaries rather than relying on the label.

A term for activities involving faeces; it carries substantial hygiene and infection concerns.

Also searched as: scat, brown shower

Always clarify: Never assume acceptance; this requires explicit boundaries and significant infection-control consideration and is commonly declined.

One adult slides their body over another, often using oil or gel.

Also searched as: body slide, body-to-body slide

Always clarify: Confirm clothing, products, allergies, areas of contact, cleanup, and boundaries.

An amount charged under a clearly communicated policy when a confirmed appointment is cancelled late.

Also searched as: late cancellation fee

Always clarify: Confirm the written policy, timing threshold, amount, and whether it applies to this booking.

A higher-intensity BDSM activity involving controlled strikes with a cane.

Also searched as: cane play

Always clarify: Requires experience, safe body areas, intensity limits, marks policy, safeword and aftercare.

Oral sex on a penis using a condom.

Also searched as: condom oral, covered oral

Always clarify: Confirm condom type, completion expectations, and the provider's boundaries.

A BDSM category involving consensual pain or intense sensation applied to male genitals.

Also searched as: genital CBT

Always clarify: Require precise activities, intensity, health considerations, limits, safeword, and the provider's explicit approval.

Wearing clothing culturally associated with a different gender, sometimes as part of role-play or personal expression.

Also searched as: cross dressing, crossdresser

Always clarify: Ask whether the request concerns the client, the provider, clothing supplied, assistance, or role-play; use respectful language.

Ejaculation into another person's mouth.

Also searched as: finish in mouth

Always clarify: Confirm barrier and fluid-contact boundaries; never infer consent from the abbreviation.

Ejaculation into another person's mouth followed by swallowing.

Also searched as: CIM with swallowing

Always clarify: This is fluid contact requiring explicit agreement; check the provider's boundaries.

Ejaculation inside the vagina without a condom or other containing barrier.

Also searched as: finish inside vagina, internal ejaculation

Always clarify: This involves pregnancy and infection risk; the provider's barrier and fluid-contact boundaries control.

Ejaculation onto an agreed external body area.

Also searched as: cum on breasts, body finish

Always clarify: Confirm the exact area, cleanup, and the provider's fluid-contact boundaries.

Ejaculation onto a person's face.

Also searched as: facial

Always clarify: Confirm the exact area, eye avoidance, cleanup, and the provider's fluid-contact boundaries.

A voluntary, informed, specific, and reversible agreement to an activity.

Also searched as: agreement, permission

Always clarify: Consent must be specific and can be withdrawn at any time; silence or payment is not blanket consent.

Using an agreed outfit, character or scenario as part of an adult appointment.

Also searched as: costumes, roleplay, role play

Always clarify: Confirm the theme, clothing, language, actions and limits in advance.

A booking request involving two adult clients or a provider joining an adult couple.

Also searched as: couples booking

Always clarify: Confirm every participant, consent, screening, barriers, roles and whether multi-person bookings are offered.

A broad description for mutually comfortable cuddling and agreed touch; it does not grant permission for every body area or activity.

Also searched as: cuddling, touching, affectionate touch

Always clarify: Confirm comfortable body areas, intensity, duration and boundaries.

Another abbreviation sometimes used for oral contact around the anus, also called rimming.

Also searched as: rimming, AR

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barriers, hygiene, and the provider's boundaries.

Oral sex performed on a vulva; also called cunnilingus.

Also searched as: cunnilingus, oral on vulva

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barriers, hygiene, and the provider's boundaries.

A term generally referring to simultaneous finger penetration of the vagina and anus.

Also searched as: double digit

Always clarify: Confirm exact meaning, hygiene, gloves, lubricant, limits, and the provider's boundaries.

Money paid before an appointment under stated booking and refund rules.

Also searched as: booking deposit, advance

Always clarify: Confirm amount, method, refund or transfer policy, and that payment instructions are genuine.

Prolonged or passionate open-mouth kissing using tongues.

Also searched as: deep kissing, French kissing, FK

Always clarify: Confirm kissing and oral-health boundaries; do not assume it is included.

Accompanying an adult client to a meal or social setting; intimate activities are not implied.

Also searched as: dinner date, social dinner

Always clarify: Confirm time, venue, transport, public conduct, privacy and what is not included.

Sexual or provocative words used between consenting adults; preferred language and limits vary widely.

Also searched as: adult talk, verbal play

Always clarify: Confirm acceptable words, names, themes, slurs, triggers and a clear stop signal before starting.

A sexual position involving rear-entry penetration between consenting adults.

Also searched as: rear entry

Always clarify: Confirm barrier use, pace, comfort, consent signals and the provider's boundaries.

A person who consensually takes an agreed controlling or directing role within negotiated limits.

Also searched as: dominant

Always clarify: Ask what actions, authority, language, intensity, limits, safeword, and aftercare are expected; the title gives no automatic permission.

A professional who provides consensual dominance or BDSM experiences; exact offerings vary.

Also searched as: pro domme, professional dominant

Always clarify: Do not use the title as a list of services; ask for specifics and compare them with the provider's configured offerings.

A woman or feminine person taking a consensual dominant role.

Also searched as: female dom, dominant woman

Always clarify: Ask for specific activities, style, limits, safeword, and aftercare; do not assume the provider adopts this role.

Simultaneous penetration involving two body openings, two objects or body parts, or two forms of penetration in one opening; usage varies.

Also searched as: double penetration

Always clarify: The meaning varies greatly; require exact anatomy, participants, objects, barriers, limits, and the provider's explicit approval.

Oral sex involving taking a penis deeply into the mouth or throat.

Also searched as: deepthroat, deep oral

Always clarify: Confirm limits and safety; gagging, force, or breath restriction must never be assumed.

Using purpose-built equipment to provide controlled electrical sensation.

Also searched as: electro play, e-stim

Always clarify: Requires appropriate equipment, training, health screening, prohibited body areas, intensity limits and a stop signal.

A massage experience described as intimate or teasing; inclusions vary and must be stated separately.

Also searched as: sensual massage, erotic massage, erotic relaxation

Always clarify: Confirm clothing, touch boundaries, products, finish expectations and the provider's listed services.

A vague term for additions to a base booking, which may involve extra time, cost, or separately agreed activities.

Also searched as: add-ons, additional service

Always clarify: Ask exactly what is requested; never infer an activity or price from the word alone.

Ejaculation onto a person's face.

Also searched as: COF, cum on face

Always clarify: Confirm exact area, eye avoidance, cleanup, and the provider's fluid-contact boundaries.

The release of fluid from the urethral area during sexual stimulation; experiences and terminology vary.

Also searched as: squirting, g-spot ejaculation

Always clarify: Do not promise a body response; clarify whether the client is asking a question or making an expectation.

A strong interest in a particular object, material, body area, sensation or scenario.

Also searched as: kink

Always clarify: Ask for the exact interest, requested activity, intensity, limits and safety requirements.

A three-person appointment involving two women and one man; it is often used similarly to MFF.

Also searched as: FFM threesome, two women one man

Always clarify: Confirm every participant, consent, screening, barriers, roles and whether multi-person appointments are offered.

Creating a photo, video, or audio recording during an appointment.

Also searched as: recording, video, photos

Always clarify: Recording requires explicit prior consent, device and storage rules, and the provider's approval; no hidden recording.

Alternating warm and cool sensations on agreed body areas.

Also searched as: temperature play, hot and cold

Always clarify: Confirm products, temperatures, body areas, allergies, sensitivity, and limits.

Insertion of a hand into the vagina or anus.

Also searched as: hand penetration

Always clarify: This is a higher-risk activity requiring explicit boundaries, preparation, hygiene, gloves, lubricant, and experience.

Open-mouth kissing using tongues.

Also searched as: French kiss, DFK

Always clarify: Confirm kissing and oral-health boundaries; do not assume it is included.

A sexual or sensory interest focused on feet, footwear, or foot-related attention.

Also searched as: feet fetish, shoe fetish

Always clarify: Ask which specific foot-related activity is intended and confirm hygiene and boundaries.

Stimulation of a penis using feet, sometimes with lubricant.

Also searched as: footjob, FJ

Always clarify: Confirm completion expectations, lubricant, hygiene, pressure, and the provider's boundaries.

A regional industry term that may refer to oral sex; the direction and barrier use may be unclear.

Also searched as: oral, BJ, DATY

Always clarify: Always ask who is performing oral sex on whom, whether barriers are expected, and whether completion is requested.

Usually refers to intercourse, but some people use it for a broader package of activities.

Also searched as: full service, intercourse

Always clarify: Ask exactly what the client means; never treat the phrase as agreement to unspecified activities.

A massage covering multiple agreed body areas; intimate contact is not automatically included.

Also searched as: body massage, full oil massage

Always clarify: Confirm products, allergies, clothing, excluded areas and any separately agreed finish.

A gag reflex response or a request involving deep oral contact; it must not imply forced choking.

Also searched as: gag play

Always clarify: Separate accidental reflex, deliberate gagging, choking, force, and breath restriction; confirm strict limits.

A style of appointment described as warm, affectionate, conversational, or relationship-like. Inclusions vary by provider.

Also searched as: girlfriend experience

Always clarify: Ask which behaviours the client expects and compare each request with the provider's services and boundaries.

A term sometimes used for anal intercourse.

Also searched as: A-level, anal

Always clarify: Confirm the exact activity, barrier use, lubricant, direction, and the provider's boundaries.

Urination on another person's body or, in some usage, into the mouth.

Also searched as: golden shower, watersports

Always clarify: Confirm exact contact, hygiene, location rules, consent, and the provider's boundaries.

A phrase commonly referring to a handjob at the end of a massage.

Also searched as: massage finish, HJ

Always clarify: Ask what is being requested and check the provider's service list; the phrase can be used indirectly.

An activity, condition, or form of contact that a person will not agree to.

Also searched as: absolute limit, no-go

Always clarify: Treat a hard limit as a firm no; do not bargain, pressure, or reinterpret it.

Manual stimulation of a penis using a hand.

Also searched as: hand relief, hand job

Always clarify: Confirm completion expectations, lubricant, and the provider's boundaries.

A booking where the client travels to the provider's approved work location.

Also searched as: in-call, provider location

Always clarify: Confirm arrival time, location instructions, discretion, parking, and building rules only after approval.

A consensual power-exchange style using agreed intimidating language, posture or authority.

Also searched as: intimidation on you

Always clarify: Confirm exact words and actions, trauma triggers, limits, safeword and aftercare; genuine threats are not role play.

Rubbing a penis between the buttocks without anal penetration.

Also searched as: between buttocks

Always clarify: Confirm that penetration is not intended, plus lubricant, completion expectations, and boundaries.

Lip contact that can range from light closed-mouth kissing to open-mouth kissing.

Also searched as: passionate kissing, affectionate kissing

Always clarify: Confirm the style and oral-health boundaries rather than assuming all kissing is included.

A term relating to producing breast milk or a request involving breast milk.

Also searched as: lactating, milk play

Always clarify: Do not assume lactation, availability or fluid contact; confirm health, consent and boundaries.

A fetish interest focused on latex or leather clothing, texture, appearance or scent.

Also searched as: latex worship, leather worship

Always clarify: Confirm material availability, allergies, cleaning, clothing, contact and boundaries.

Gentle, negotiated restraint using agreed methods that allow prompt release.

Also searched as: gentle restraint

Always clarify: Confirm equipment, circulation safety, release method, safeword and hard limits.

Gentle impact play with an agreed intensity and body area.

Also searched as: spanking on me, spanking on you

Always clarify: Confirm direction, body area, intensity, stop signal and marks policy.

Gentle closed-mouth or limited kissing, depending on the provider's definition.

Also searched as: light kiss

Always clarify: Ask what type of kissing is expected and check the provider's boundaries.

A costume or character scenario involving a maid persona.

Also searched as: maid costume

Always clarify: Confirm outfit availability, scenario, language and activity boundaries.

A BDSM role involving negotiated enjoyment of receiving pain or discomfort.

Also searched as: masochistic role

Always clarify: Require exact activities, intensity, health considerations, hard limits, safeword, and aftercare.

Touch intended for relaxation or sensual enjoyment across agreed body areas.

Also searched as: bodywork

Always clarify: Confirm style, pressure, products, body areas, training claims and whether any finish is included.

A title used in some negotiated power-exchange relationships for a dominant person.

Also searched as: master role

Always clarify: Ask what the title means to the client; it never creates unlimited authority or overrides consent.

Touching one's own body for sexual pleasure, privately or as part of an agreed adult activity.

Also searched as: self pleasure

Always clarify: Confirm whether the request is observation, mutual activity or a performance and whether recording is prohibited.

A three-person appointment involving one man and two women.

Also searched as: MFF threesome, two women one man

Always clarify: Confirm every participant, consent, screening, barriers, boundaries, roles, and whether the provider offers multi-person appointments.

A slang description for an adult woman perceived as attractive and older or maternal in appearance.

Also searched as: mature woman

Always clarify: Treat it as slang, not a service category, and maintain respectful communication.

A title used in some negotiated power-exchange relationships for a dominant woman; it can also have unrelated relationship meanings.

Also searched as: mistress role

Always clarify: Clarify whether the client means a BDSM title or relationship-style language and ask for specific expectations.

A three-person appointment involving two men and one woman.

Also searched as: MMF threesome, two men one woman

Always clarify: Confirm every participant, consent, screening, barriers, boundaries, roles, and whether the provider offers multi-person appointments.

A request for a client to have more than one orgasm during an appointment.

Also searched as: multiple orgasms, multiple finishes

Always clarify: Clarify that body responses cannot be guaranteed and confirm time, activities, and boundaries.

Changing between mutually agreed positions during an appointment without guaranteeing a specific number.

Also searched as: different positions

Always clarify: Confirm comfort, barriers and boundaries; payment never removes the right to pause or stop.

Both adults perform oral sex on each other, either in turns or at the same time.

Also searched as: mutual oral, 69

Always clarify: Confirm direction, timing, barriers, fluid-contact expectations, and the provider's boundaries.

A mutually agreed activity where adults provide manual stimulation to themselves or each other.

Also searched as: mutual hand play

Always clarify: Confirm who touches whom, lubricant, hygiene, completion expectations and boundaries.

Both adults give and receive oral sex without condoms or dental dams.

Also searched as: unprotected mutual oral

Always clarify: This specifically means no barriers; the provider's safer-sex rules and boundaries control.

A term commonly used for oral sex without a condom or dental dam.

Also searched as: uncovered oral, BBBJ, OWO

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barrier use, fluid contact, hygiene and the provider's safer-sex rules.

An advanced skin-piercing activity that carries blood-borne infection and injury risks.

Also searched as: needle sensation

Always clarify: This requires specialist training, sterile single-use equipment, sharps disposal, health screening and explicit consent.

A discussion of roles, activities, limits, signals, health considerations, timing, and aftercare before consent is given.

Also searched as: scene negotiation, boundary discussion

Always clarify: Use specific plain language, confirm mutual understanding, and remember that either person can still decline or stop.

Touch or sensation focused on the nipples, with intensity varying widely.

Also searched as: nipple play

Always clarify: Confirm direction, touch type, intensity, tools, sensitivity and marks policy.

A person who confirms an appointment but does not arrive and does not cancel appropriately.

Also searched as: did not attend, DNA

Always clarify: Record objective facts and apply the provider's configured future-booking policy.

A casual arrangement without an expectation of an ongoing romantic relationship.

Also searched as: casual, no relationship

Always clarify: Clarify communication and booking expectations; it does not remove consent or boundaries.

A costume or character scenario using a fictional nurse persona.

Also searched as: nurse costume

Always clarify: Confirm outfit availability, scenario and boundaries; do not imply real medical care or qualifications.

A booking where the provider travels to an agreed hotel, residence, or other approved location.

Also searched as: out-call, client location

Always clarify: Confirm location, travel time and fee, access, safety process, and the provider's approval.

A longer appointment that includes agreed overnight hours; sleep and continuous activity are not guaranteed.

Also searched as: overnight, overnight booking, overnight stays

Always clarify: Confirm start and finish times, location, sleep, meals, privacy, rate, safety process and boundaries.

Oral sex on a penis without a condom.

Also searched as: oral without condom, BBBJ

Always clarify: Confirm the meaning, barrier use, completion expectations, and the provider's boundaries.

A slang term for ejaculation onto an agreed external area around the neck or chest.

Also searched as: neck finish

Always clarify: Confirm exact area, eye and hair avoidance, cleanup and fluid-contact boundaries.

Anal penetration of a partner using a strap-on dildo.

Also searched as: strap-on play

Always clarify: Confirm direction, equipment, condom use on toys, lubricant, hygiene, experience, and limits.

Creating images during an appointment using a phone or camera.

Also searched as: photos, photo session

Always clarify: Photography requires explicit prior consent, device and storage rules; hidden or surprise photography is never acceptable.

A fictional adult costume or authority scenario using a police-style character.

Also searched as: policewoman, cop role play

Always clarify: Confirm outfit, language, restraint expectations, authority limits, safeword and prohibited actions.

External or internal stimulation intended to involve the prostate.

Also searched as: prostate play

Always clarify: Confirm external versus internal contact, gloves, lubricant, hygiene, health considerations and boundaries.

A performance style intended to resemble mainstream pornography. Expected activities and intensity vary widely.

Also searched as: pornstar experience

Always clarify: Ask for every expected activity, tone, intensity, language, and boundary; the label alone is not sufficient consent.

Massage followed by manual stimulation of the penis.

Also searched as: rub and tug, massage with hand relief

Always clarify: Confirm the requested massage and finish, time, lubricant, and the provider's service list.

Oral contact around the anus.

Also searched as: AR, DATO, anal rimming

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barriers, hygiene, and the provider's boundaries.

An ambiguous phrase that may refer to oral sex performed in the opposite direction from what was previously discussed.

Also searched as: reverse oral

Always clarify: Always ask who is performing oral sex on whom and what barriers are expected.

Rubbing a penis between the breasts, sometimes until ejaculation.

Also searched as: Spanish, tit job

Always clarify: Confirm lubricant, completion expectations, exact fluid-contact boundary, and the provider's services.

A BDSM role involving negotiated enjoyment of another person's consensual pain or discomfort.

Also searched as: sadistic role

Always clarify: Require exact activities, intensity, health considerations, hard limits, safeword, and aftercare.

A word or signal used to pause, reduce, or stop an activity immediately.

Also searched as: safe word, stop signal

Always clarify: Agree on clear stop and slow signals beforehand, including a non-verbal signal where speech may be difficult.

A costume or fictional scenario performed only by consenting adults using a school-style theme.

Also searched as: schoolgirl role play

Always clarify: All participants must be adults; confirm outfit, language and boundaries and avoid age ambiguity.

A provider's process for checking enough information to decide whether to consider a booking.

Also searched as: verification, client screening

Always clarify: Use only approved, lawful, privacy-conscious checks and never claim screening guarantees safety.

A costume or character scenario using an adult office or secretary persona.

Also searched as: office role play

Always clarify: Confirm outfit, scenario, language and activity boundaries.

Devices made for adult stimulation, including vibrators and dildos.

Also searched as: toys, adult toys

Always clarify: Confirm ownership, material, cleaning, barriers, body area, sharing rules and who controls the toy.

Lingerie chosen for an adult appointment or visual style.

Also searched as: lingerie

Always clarify: Confirm only from available approved wardrobe; clothing never implies consent to an activity.

Two consenting adults showering together where space, safety and boundaries allow.

Also searched as: sexy shower for 2, shower together, shared shower

Always clarify: Confirm space, slipping risk, touch boundaries, products and whether it is actually offered.

A consensual adult role-play theme involving feminisation; language and meaning vary by participant.

Also searched as: feminisation play

Always clarify: Confirm respectful language, clothing, actions, humiliation limits, safeword and aftercare.

A consensual power-exchange scenario where one adult takes an agreed submissive role.

Also searched as: slave play, sub play

Always clarify: Titles never remove consent; confirm actions, language, control, hard limits, safeword and aftercare.

Transferring semen from one person's mouth to another.

Also searched as: semen transfer

Always clarify: This requires explicit consent and involves fluid contact; check the provider's boundaries.

Companionship for a dinner, event or public activity; intimate services are not implied.

Also searched as: social companion, event companion

Always clarify: Confirm venue, time, transport, public behaviour, privacy and booking boundaries.

A time temporarily reserved while waiting for required confirmation or information.

Also searched as: tentative hold, pencil booking

Always clarify: State the expiry time and what the client must do before the hold becomes confirmed.

An activity a person may consider only under specific conditions, at low intensity, or after discussion.

Also searched as: conditional limit

Always clarify: Ask for the exact conditions and never treat uncertainty as consent.

A neutral industry term for the person providing the booked service.

Also searched as: provider

Always clarify: This describes a business role and does not state gender, services, or boundaries.

Rubbing a penis between the breasts, sometimes until ejaculation.

Also searched as: Russian, tit job

Always clarify: Confirm lubricant, completion expectations, exact fluid-contact boundary, and the provider's services.

The release of fluid from the urethral area during stimulation; experiences vary.

Also searched as: FE, female ejaculation

Always clarify: Do not promise a body response; clarify whether the client is asking or expressing an expectation.

A dildo worn with a harness or similar garment and used for penetration.

Also searched as: strap on, harness dildo

Always clarify: Confirm direction, body area, equipment ownership, cleaning, condom use, lubricant, and boundaries.

A performance in which an adult gradually removes clothing in an intentionally teasing style.

Also searched as: strip show, undressing show

Always clarify: Confirm level of undress, music, distance, touching rules, and the provider's services.

A person who consensually gives some agreed control to a dominant person within negotiated limits.

Also searched as: submissive

Always clarify: Ask what actions, language, control, intensity, limits, safeword, and aftercare the client expects.

A non-standard phrase that may refer to relaxation within a submissive role or to a specific requested finish.

Also searched as: sub relief

Always clarify: Ask the person to explain the exact role, activities, finish, control and boundaries in plain language.

A person who provides consensual adult services for payment.

Also searched as: sex worker, adult service provider

Always clarify: Use respectful person-first language and do not infer an individual's services or boundaries.

Someone who may take either a dominant or submissive role depending on the agreement and context.

Also searched as: role switch

Always clarify: Confirm which role is requested for this appointment and negotiate activities, limits, and signals.

Placing the testicles in a partner's mouth or against their face.

Also searched as: teabagging

Always clarify: Confirm exact contact, pressure, hygiene, and the provider's boundaries.

Flirtatious or sensual behaviour intended to build anticipation within agreed limits.

Also searched as: playful teasing

Always clarify: Confirm touch, clothing, language and activity boundaries.

An informal label for someone who repeatedly consumes time without moving toward a genuine booking.

Also searched as: tyre-kicker, photo collector

Always clarify: Base decisions on observable behaviour, not assumptions, and record neutral facts.

In BDSM or sexual contexts, the person carrying out an agreed action; this does not always mean dominant.

Also searched as: topping

Always clarify: Ask what activity is involved and do not assume that top, dominant, and giver mean the same thing.

A performance involving self-stimulation with an adult toy.

Also searched as: toy performance, vibrator show

Always clarify: Confirm toys, viewing or touching rules, cleaning, barriers, and whether recording is prohibited.

A term for oral-anal contact while manually stimulating the penis.

Also searched as: trombone

Always clarify: Confirm direction, barriers, hygiene, completion expectations, and the provider's boundaries.

A phrase for oral stimulation of the testicles.

Also searched as: testicle oral, BLS

Always clarify: Confirm hygiene, comfort, intensity, and the provider's boundaries.

The buffer used for rest, cleaning, travel, room reset, supplies, and schedule protection between bookings.

Also searched as: buffer, reset time

Always clarify: Use the provider's configured buffer and extend it whenever the provider needs more time.

Intercourse without a condom.

Also searched as: unprotected sex, bareback, BBS

Always clarify: This specifically means no condom; the provider's safer-sex rules and boundaries control.

An advanced activity involving the urethral opening, sometimes with specialised equipment.

Also searched as: sounding

Always clarify: Carries significant infection and injury risk and requires specialist knowledge, sterile equipment and explicit boundaries.

An umbrella term for consensual activities involving urine.

Also searched as: watersports, GS, golden shower

Always clarify: Ask for the exact activity, contact, hygiene, location rules, and the provider's boundaries.

Using specifically selected warm wax on agreed body areas for sensation.

Also searched as: wax sensation

Always clarify: Require suitable wax, temperature control, skin checks, protected areas, emergency removal and explicit consent.

A negotiated adult activity involving controlled grappling or competitive physical play.

Also searched as: session wrestling

Always clarify: Confirm rules, strength, holds, injuries, stop signals, clothing and prohibited techniques.